While you're picking out what to wear tonight we are getting our edit on down in the One More Shot lab. Working on one of the more emotional scenes right now. You know it's a tough one when you have to take breaks to keep you from going back to one of the lowest points in your life. Hey, have a good day!
Hope you and your crew have a happy holiday and an awesome new year. We have a feeling 2015 will bring some excitement with a movie and another project.
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photo by Elizabeth Walker c.2014
Last week we met with Elizabeth Walker. Elizabeth is doing a really interesting project out of Michigan called "The ART of Infertility." Making art out of the world of infertility: we're obviously big fans of this idea. Elizabeth interviewed Maya and I for a future exhibit. Elizabeth has been sharing the different ways people going through infertility process their experiences through different art forms. Using art and creativity to make sense of traumatic experiences is not new, though it is often at the heart of a lot of beautiful and powerful work. For us, it's the film. One More Shot has been our way to cope and process this long journey through infertility. Take a look at the project website for more info.
Keep it simple.
A laptop and some footage and I'm good to go. Believe it or not there's two years worth of a movie here.
Greetings from the Pacific Northwest. Trying to get some editing done this week when I'm not stuffing my face with food or seeing my favorite people.
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Maya's article for the New York Times has gotten people talking. That is a great thing. Check out Maya's follow-up to the support, questions, and controversy the article has caused. Read it here.
In movie news, I spent much of this weekend going through footage. I mentioned this in a previous post but it's very interesting how things have changed in terms of the story we're telling in this film. Things that felt important in the moment, that I looked back on thinking "that's it! That's the low point of the film," aren't anywhere close to the low point or the miss the mark on what we're trying to say. Every day I dig into this film I feel like I know the story I want to tell, and every scene challenges me to stick to that feeling or take another look at what I'm trying to say. It's this struggle and change that I know will make this film better.
Head over to the Motherlode Blog at the New York Times to see an awesome article Maya wrote about our journey through embryo adoption. It's an inspiring article about everything we've gone through, as well as a glimpse into the amazing science that is helping to create our family.
Jeez, is it really the middle of November already? It's always hard to tell with Los Angeles weather. Well, sunshine and 75 degrees or not, time is moving on and so is the project. Here are a couple updates on all things One More Shot.
This week we're welcoming another story editor on to the team. Think of a story editor as part writer, part editor. A good story editor works with the footage to get to the heart of a scene and makes sure the overall stories are tracking. This way, when the editor gets their hands on the footage, they'll know exactly how to cut the material. Story editors help streamline the post process. It makes my job as the director/producer and the editor's job much easier. We'll introduce her in the coming days but trust me, she's awesome.
The last couple weeks we have been focusing on the many interview sessions we have shot over the last two years. It is really unbelievable to see the difference in how Maya and I felt, say in 2012, versus now. One of the heartbreaking parts of going through infertility is that until you are pregnant, it feels like every moment is your personal low point. Time is moving on and you still aren't pregnant. So reliving footage from two years ago and watching us describe how hopeless everything seems is really emotional for me. I want to tell 2012 us to keep holding on and believing but I also want to remind them, "if you thought 2012 was bad, just wait until 2013!"
Thanks for keeping up with us here, on Twitter, and now on the Facebook page. This project is always changing and we are glad you are along for the ride with us. We aren't a big production company that can keep this project moving at all times. We don't have a big budget, just whatever costs I can fit on my AMEX. We are a handful of passionate people that want to tell a great story. There are awesome things to come, so stay with us.
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Question: If you've gone through or are going through infertility, when did you begin telling friends and family about your situation? How did they react?
Did we meet you yesterday at the Walk for Hope down in Long Beach, CA? We met a ton of people and shared the film trailer along with lots of info about the movie. It was so awesome to hear other people's stories and everything they went through or are going through to put their families together.
Coming from a production background, I was prepared to talk cameras and codecs and workflow and all that other production nerd stuff that producers talk about when discussing projects. This was just talking about our story and listening to other stories. And it all felt normal. And that was great. Making something that sucks and is tough and life-altering into something that can be in a NORMAL conversation.
So thanks for coming out yesterday if you made it. If you're just hearing about us for the first time, welcome. Please take a second to sign up for the mailing list or follow us on Twitter or like us on Facebook. Or just keep checking the website.
Also, have a great Monday.
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